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The Armchair Angler, or How I Made My Own Planner Cover

I've gone through a handful of A5 planners and notebooks over the last few months, trying to find something suitable to help me run my life. I could show you the receipts of how many I've tried! In fact, you may have seen one version of it on my Instagram. The problem is, I have a LOT of things that I need on paper, and with me at all times. I've minimized my use of digital notetaking to the bare minimum. The thing I noticed while voraciously researching options is that planner creators assume you only need 100 pages or…

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Embracing Your Creative Nemesis

I'm not a devout follower of New Age thinking. I'm a cradle Catholic, but I have a hard time believing that God doesn't give us the tools to explore other ways of thinking. For example, my Ma always had Buddhist and pagan symbols in the house while insisting we go through baptism, first communion, and confirmation. She always said if one doesn't protect her, one of the other ones will. My friends growing up were practicing Wiccans at one point. I have crystals and practice meditation. I resolutely walk the fine line of spirituality though firmly grounded in my faith.…

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On Keeping a Private Journal

Writing has always been a therapeutic endeavor for me. I turned to poetry when I had no other voice. However, I quickly realized that my will to live was intertwined with the art of writing when I channeled my teenage rage and post-adolescent hangups on paper. I graduated from poetry eventually to major in English at the college level, writing short stories, creating modern-day fairy tales, participating in virtual television shows, scholarly essays, maintaining my blog, and the like. "The preservation of our scattered thoughts is to be considered an object but of minor importance."Henry David ThoreauTweet To preserve these…

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On White Male Authors Masquerading as Females

Book Riot's podcast episode #219 put me on to the fact that Riley Sager is a pen name for a fella named Todd Ritter. Jezebel broke the story. Every write-up that followed - including Book Riot - made the clipped observation that it's uncool for men to flip the script and create ambiguous-sounding pen names to sell female-led books to women. I agree. Full stop. It's not even up for discussion. Isn't it hard enough for a woman (or a woman of color with a decidedly ethnic name, like me) to get someone to pick up their book, much less…

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The Curse of the First Draft

The first draft used to be a horrible, mentally draining aspect of the writing process for me, before I decided I wanted to be a professional writer. I was so caught up in trying to be perfect from the moment I put words on the page that I never let myself relax enough to enjoy letting everything happen organically. I think that’s a holdover from my childhood. I had this overwhelming need to project this perfect image of who I should be. That wasn’t taught to me, it just sort of appeared over time. As I got older, I realized…

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The Art of Revision

Writing to me has been cathartic throughout my entire life. There has never been a time when I wasn’t writing. I would write a poem, short story, or similar and then hide it from the world because I was afraid of people seeing who I was. Or I would let my friends see my writing, but their biased opinions never helped me grow. As I got older, I realized that writing is more than therapy; I enjoyed it for the artistic process, and I loved entertaining people in my way. As such, a revision was never part of my process…

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How to Build a Writing Bag of Writing

Being a creative person seems counterproductive in our go-go-go world. The recession did nobody any favors. COVID-19 tanked a lot of creative journeys. Worrying about the state of the world may have overloaded your emotional well-being. Maybe you were a college grad turned out right in the middle of the 2008 recession. That was me too. That was not a fun place to be financially, emotionally, or physically. I had a job through the brunt of it, but it came at great financial hardship. I had to drop out of school for a year until I could get back on…

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